andy (User)
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by andy 3 Months ago
wow diha ko bilib nimo bai, mabalaknon kaau na tawo.ayeeee. pero naksulay ko ana b4 bai, nya after months nagtok ug seryoso nya ga break daun. ok ramansab no hurt feelings kay same manmi duha gud ga play. pero b4 rato, wala nako niutro kay bati kaau xa. walay au. its a nice experience sab.
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by ice 3 Months ago
andy wrote:
wow diha ko bilib nimo bai, mabalaknon kaau na tawo.ayeeee. pero naksulay ko ana b4 bai, nya after months nagtok ug seryoso nya ga break daun. ok ramansab no hurt feelings kay same manmi duha gud ga play. pero b4 rato, wala nako niutro kay bati kaau xa. walay au. its a nice experience sab.
learn from it bai...thats what i do...
@topic... being in a relationship...you know your worth...
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by immortelle 3 Months ago
When you love someone, you love them, when you don't then you don't. [MNIKSS]
When you love, you will do anything to be with that person... Otherwise, remain single, free and available. But being single and free isn't an excuse to play with other people's emotions, and yours.
Ecclesiastes 11:9
Be happy, young man [and woman], while you are young,
and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth.
Follow the ways of your heart
and whatever your eyes see,
but know that for all these things
God will bring you to judgment.
Every long lost dream, lead me to where you are
Others who broke my heart, they were like Northern Stars
Pointing me on my way, into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That lead me straight to you
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by TagaBudjol 3 Months ago
Kani, based naman gyud ni sa akong experience.. minyo naman gyud ko.. so murag naa sad ko gamay nga ika-share.. hehe!!
In life, there are always people who will betray you, who will cause you pain and anger. But that's life, you have lived with it since you were born and up to this day. Nobody is perfect.
The person you may trust now with all your life, emotions, everything.. may be the first person who will ultimately betray you. Of course, we feel pain, we feel anger, resentment and hatred.. but still that's part of life.
Be true to your feelings.. if you are angry.. be angry.. if you feel hatred.. feel hatred.. but I don't think that would last long.. everything is temporary.. what we feel now are temporary.. it will be replaced later on as you go on with life.. anger becomes joy, resentment becomes acceptance, pain becomes joy napud.. hehe!! Move on!!
"LINGIN ANG BOLA".. sometimes you are up.. sometimes you are down.. sometimes you are single.. sometimes you are double..
bitaw...
My point is life is always full of trials.. without trials how can you appreciate life?
Naa ba ko point? feel nako wala.. pero sige.. share lang nako.. hehehe!!
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by TagaBudjol 3 Months ago
naa pa diay ko i-add:
If you are afraid to get into a relationship because of pain, it is just one way of showing that you have not accepted life at it's fullest.
Why? because you have only experienced the half of it (ang happy part lang). 
immortelle (Moderator)
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by immortelle 3 Months ago
amen... agree ko sir don... 
Every long lost dream, lead me to where you are
Others who broke my heart, they were like Northern Stars
Pointing me on my way, into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That lead me straight to you
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by w@liboy 3 Months ago
I think its one's prerogative man kung asa sya happy...
if you are happy being single, then go for it, chances lang are when you grow old nobody's gonna take care of you, and share life's surprises with.
but still it's your choice...at the end of the day ikaw gihapon ang mag decide.. "way mag buot" ika nga.
But then again, if you're happy being with someone you love and care about then nurture it diba...make it a happy, healthy and worthwhile relationship, may it be long or transient affair still nothing's gonna take away that feeling of bliss being with someone you care and love so much...
However, we must also understand, that since ni "enter"(ngano ni enter!) man ta ani na mga butang, we must also be ready for whatever circumstances that may arise... an old adage "kung handa kang magmahal, handa ka ring masaktan" says it all.just be careful with ur feelings lang.. sometimes our own feelings betray us..we may think it is love but its lust..we may that we are OK , but we aren't...we may think that she/he loves us... she/he doesn't.
We only live in this world once...we ought to be happy in ways we know we be truly happy...=)
waaaaa... naunsa man ko oist. as if my fingers are thinking....
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"After all, mountaineering, once experienced, becomes an obsession. " -Joel of Sierra Trekkers Cebu-
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Re:compare being single versus having a relationsh
by dr3adsl0ck 2 Months, 4 Weeks ago
if you are in a relationship, you have someone to lean on if naay problema..
provided nga tarong pd imong partner and dli lang sa jam2x ra kutob..hehe
"I curse the day when you will fall out of love to me..."
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